Of course yesterday’s New England Journal of Medicine report on senior sexuality prompted not only a respectful and informative media blast, but also the kind of stereotypical response we’ve come to expect, such as “Senior Sex Study Shows Nana and Papa Still Getting It On“
by Ted Gay. An excerpt from Gay’s satirical site:
Jane Stacy, a ninety-four-year-old paraplegic who is cared for by her husband, Van, said that their love life was sparked after she showered and he placed her in her chair to dry and fell face down in her twat.“I said, ‘as long as you’re down there, Van, tend to the clitoris,’ which I was most happy to say he did,” Jane said.When he was asked what Jane tasted like, Van shrugged his shoulders and said, “Depends.”
Is this funny? I know, Postcards is a satirical site, and it even says, “the editorial content on this page is fictional. It is presented for entertainment purposes only. We cannot be held responsible for the actions of anyone who takes this sort of thing seriously.” What I’m bothered by is that the elderly seem be fair game for ridicule, and that’s what I don’t like.
Am I oversensitive when I say this is the kind of senior sex stereotyping and putdown that I resent? Should I just laugh, as I’m sure Gay intended? Or is this just one more example of our society’s view of elders as pathetic and ludicrous if they enjoy and/or desire sex?
What do you think? Please tell me.