Hear life coach Chip August interview me for his Sex & Intimacy podcast series on Personal Life Media. We chatted about senior sex, what it was like to write Better Than I Ever Expected: Straight Talk about Sex After Sixty (especially for Robert, an artist and a private person, who found himself negotiating which details about our sex life would appear on the printed page), and helpful tips for a better sex life at our age.
We discussed, for example, that an older women’s lack of lubrication does not mean she isn’t sexual aroused, and how applying lubricant can bring back the joy of friction and become part of the love play. I tell men “what we women really want” (listen up, guys!) and why sex toys can take us over the top.