Joan’s injuries 2025
I know that my followers were surprised when I abruptly announced to my subscribers, “No April newsletter” with no explanation. My partner Mac Marshall and I were in a serious (and unavoidable) car crash on April 24, 2025. Mac’s injuries were thankfully minor, but I suffered three neck fractures and deeply bruised ribs and chest.
I was very frightened that the injuries — at age 81, with osteoporosis and a previous neck fracture — were too serious to overcome. But the good news I received yesterday: I’ll be able to make a full recovery!
I was sent home from the ER on 4.25 in a big, uncomfortable neck brace that allowed no neck motion and held me so tightly that I couldn’t even open my mouth enough to chew. I nicknamed it “the cage.” Fortunately Mac is a pro with a blender, so he’s been making me nutritious smoothies and soup purees.
On 5.2, after a week in the cage, I was able to get re-evaluated and, whew, given a smaller size neck collar which is much more comfortable (if “comfortable” is a word that can be used alongside “three neck fractures”). I’ll wear it for another month. Tonight, 5.3, I’ll try to eat solid food! Small steps!
I’m staying at Mac’s for now, and yes, I’m able to sleep — very well in fact — thanks to a reclining La-Z-Boy couch.
I plan to use this blog post as my primary communication personally and professionally, expanding and updating it as I can.
Please feel free to comment – I’d love to hear from you. No medical advice, please, I’m getting excellent care.
Update 1, 5.5.25:
Something I didn’t include, but should have: the pain has been extreme (wailing, sobbing extreme) when I first stand up after the painkiller (Oxycodone) has worn off. The drug is a lifesaver, and I’m careful to take it only when I absolutely need to. I’m including this because it’s a large part of my reality. My ribs are healing so the pain is only in my neck now, rather than every breath as it was before.
Much of my body was a technicolor display of bruises, and those are healing, too. I’m very grateful that the injuries weren’t worse, and I’m motivated to put in the work to heal.
Your comments make me happy, thank you.
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Dear Joan,
I was sad to hear about your accident and the injury to your neck. I can only imagine how difficult and painful this must be, and I sincerely hope you are surrounded by love, care, and support as you heal. Please know that you are in my thoughts.
Beyond my concern for your recovery, I want to take a moment to acknowledge the incredible work you’ve done. You are a true pioneer—blazing trails where others may have hesitated, inspiring those around you, and leaving an indelible mark on the world. Your contributions have shaped lives, ideas, and futures in ways that will endure far beyond any single moment.
When I heard about your accident, I couldn’t help but reflect on how much your work means—not only to those who know you, but to people like me who wonder about years ahead. If the worst had happened, the weight of that loss would have been profound. The question of who would carry on your legacy is one that gives pause, but one thing is certain: the influence you’ve had will never fade. You have ignited sparks in others that will continue to grow, carrying forward the spirit of all that you have worked for.
For now, though, the most important thing is your recovery. Take all the time you need, lean on those who care about you, and know that you are cherished. The world needs more of your light, wisdom, and strength.
Wishing you healing, comfort, and peace,
Robert
Oh, Robert, this is exactly what I needed to hear. You can’t know how moved I am by your words. I’m crying, but in a good way. Thank you.
Wow ! Sorry to read this but happy that you are still with us. Hope that you recover quickly, and well.
Glad to see that Mac is your caregiver. Take your time getting back to your routine. Hugs from ne and Anne.
Gentle hugs from me!
Just thinking of you. You are amazing and you got this . All our love and healing thoughts
I’m glad you are on the mend and have a great caregiver!
A full recovery! Yay!
Best wishes!
Wow, I happened to be looking at my own, not very active blog, and saw a comment that you had left there over ten years ago, about my book (Tantric Sex for Busy Couples)! Curious to know what you’re up to, I see that you are indeed still very active – with a temporary setback. Sorry to hear that and glad that full recovery is projected.
So grateful that you are on your way for a full recovery. I’m sure Mac is taking good care of you. Look forward to updates on your journey back to 100%.
oh my goodness you are one tough lady blessings of healing upon you
Much love to you, Joanie!!❤️
I am so sorry to here this. With your will I am sure that you will recover. Incidently I also had a frontal car crash this night, a meeting car came over into my lane, but I could walk home. Driving is always dangerous, but a safer car makes things better. And also selection of the road.
So sorry – heal well!
Oh Joan!! Your resilience and determination are traits I’ve always admired, but I so wish you didn’t have to employ them quite so much! I hope your forays back into solid food bring you some delight, and that your recovery is as easy as possible. So very happy to hear that your prognosis is so good, and that you’re getting such good care, both at home and from the doctors. Sending you so much love.
Somehow I suspect there may be another book emerging from this unwanted event. That’s how you blossom…no need to rush it!! Do some dreaming and rest.
Sorry to hear about your accident Joan, I’m glad to hear you are feeling better and you are getting well looked after by Mac.
I suppose you have now time to research the sex life of people with fractures to their neck. I look forward to reading your findings.👍
Ha ha, thanks for the giggle, Keith!
JoAnne, you’ve always been such a force. Sending you love, admiration, and good juju healing energy vibes.
i’m sending you so much love, light, and healing. i am so grateful you will be ok. i love you, twin!
And you have a sexy care giver
Oh Joan! What a rollercoaster. What a relief to hear you’re on your way to recovery, and are receiving such amazing care. All the best as you continue trailblazing from your recliner.
Speedy healing and big love to you.
I am so glad of the prognosis! And we are all grateful that you have Mac looking after you and that HE did not sustain serious injuries in this accident. Sending love and healing energy!
Take care my dear. Give Mac a kiss from me for being your Angel. ❤️
Oh, my Goodness! Poor Baby! I had vertebral fractures (lower back) some 20-something years ago when a cow butted me. Doctor said I’d never be the same. I’m good.
I could stand, or lie flat. If you’re in a recliner you’re better than I managed. Healing thoughts are coming your way and prayers for comfort.
Omg Joan! I’m so sorry to hear about you car crash. But I am glad you are alive and getting better. If you need me to help with cleaning up your blog again or anything else just let me know.