Larry, age 70, wrote me that he used to be a swinger, but settled into monogamy because his wife would not have agreed to the swinging lifestyle. He satisfies his desire for variety through fantasy while self-pleasuring.
Larry wonders whether women fantasize while they’re having sex, either with a partner or solo. “Who do they fantasy about (a) old lovers, (b) movie stars or (c) someone that they would just like to have sex with?” Larry asks.
Any women want to respond?