prostate massage toysUntil a year ago, at age 75, my only anal experiences consisted of childhood enemas administered by my mother and prostate examinations given by my doctor. Prostate massage toys never crossed my mind.

In my naiveté I never considered my anus or my prostate to be erogenous zones. But then I read The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure: Erotic Exploration for Men and Their Partners by Charlie Glickman and Aislinn Emirzian, and my curiosity was piqued. Wishing to explore and expand my own sexual repertoire, I obtained three prostate toys: Pleasure Plug 1 from Fuze, Pure Wand from njoy, and Helix Trident from Aneros.

I tried each toy with much trepidation and lots of lube, not knowing what to expect. Those initial experiences were disappointing. I had anticipated an immediate “buzz” or feeling of intense sexual excitement, and when I didn’t, I thought prostate play was not for me.

I left those three toys unused in a drawer for many months. Then, still curious, I read Joan Price’s interview of Charlie Glickman, “Prostate Play for Pleasure and Health. I decided to give the toys another try. This time around, “curiosity thrilled the cat!”

So what had changed?

  • I learned that a host of other prostate owners derive great pleasure from stimulation of the prostate.
  • I realized that I needed to experiment more.
  • I  understood that lying prostrate to access my prostate—the position I’d used in my earlier exploration — wasn’t the best position. If instead I inserted the toy while standing, I could alter its placement easily with a hand free for nipple and/or penis play. Introducing any of the toys into my anus from that position brought my penis almost instantly erect, the more so when I moved the toy around or in and out. None of these actions alone produced an orgasm, but they primed me, and a well-lubed hand job led quickly to ejaculation.

The three toys are different.

  • The Pleasure Plug is essentially a 4-1/2-inch silicone butt plug—it’s straight, only slightly flexible, and because of the shape, it doesn’t prostate toy - Fuze Pleasure Plug reach my prostate.

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  • The Pure Wand is 7-1/2 inches of stainless steel and weighs a hefty 2 pounds. It is curved, so it can be positioned to touch the prostate directly.
  • prostate toy Aneros Helix TridentThe Helix Trident is 4 inches long, made of non-porous FDA-Approved Acetal plastic. It features a special Aneros design that stimulates multiple anal sites. (See more Aneros prostate massagers here.)

 

Both the Pure Wand and the Helix Trident can be maneuvered to push on, stroke, or massage the prostate to produce extremely pleasurable sensations. Those sensations are quite distinct from penis-oriented ones—they’re deeper, subtler, and more diffuse.

My newfound knowledge led to a fantasy. I imagined how it might feel to insert either the Pure Wand or the Helix Trident while standing erect and having a partner perform fellatio as I wiggled the toy about. To my great joy this fantasy came true! Having inserted the Helix Trident with plenty of lube, I stood over my partner seated on a chair. She played with my penis lovingly while I maneuvered Helix Trident in my anus, and before long I exploded in a wonderful orgasm. The orgasm was so powerful that on release, it mostly extruded the toy!

At age 76 I’ve discovered my prostate and a whole new world of sexual pleasure that I didn’t even know existed. If you experiment, you may also be equally fortunate.

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Shamus MacDuff's butt in underwear

 

Shamus MacDuff, age 76, was oblivious to the delights of sex toys for his own pleasure until about two years ago. He’s been making up for lost time! Read Shamus MacDuff’s other posts.

5 Comments

  1. Jeffrey on August 24, 2020 at 2:36 pm

    I purchased a thrusting dildo on Amazon. It’s very thick and has 8 vibrating variations. Let me tell you it feels amazing. When my prostate is being massaged it feels like I’m cumming and peeing at the same time. I learned that my best position for prostate access is when I lay on my side. When it’s inside me my whole body rocks! It’s awesome!

    • Joan Price on August 24, 2020 at 2:53 pm

      I recommend buying your sex toys from the retailers I support and who support my work — see banners in the right-hand column. You never know whether you’re getting the real thing or a cheap knock-off on Amazon.

      • Big Daddy on October 8, 2020 at 6:14 am

        good advice. it is all to often that er forget that Amazon is constantly battling counterfeit items that are being sold as genuine yet they are priced well below other identical models. The good price does not always equate to a legit item. The couple of dollars Amazon may save is dust in the wind for the peace of mind knowing that you have a product that is made to industry standards and carries a. complete manufacturers warrenty if needed and applicable.

  2. Scott on July 30, 2020 at 2:38 pm

    I have been massaging my prostate using Aneros toys for 5 years now. And the pleasurable feelings just keep getting better and better! For me, the internal orgasms build up and continue for up to 1 1/2 hours, just amazing! No manual manipulation is needed.

  3. Barb on July 9, 2020 at 8:00 am

    Wow, great to read this. My partner and I are mid 60’s and will definitely be doing our research on this.

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