If you’ve ever enjoyed the feeling of a lover’s cold hands touching you, or if you’re looking for a new way to increase sensation, here’s an idea: Put your lubricant or waterproof sex toy in the refrigerator for a couple of hours before sex. The combination of a hot body and a cold object can be extremely stimulating! 

I checked with Andy Duran, “Educator Andy” at Good Vibrations. He told me, “You can put your toys in the fridge for temperature play. The freezer can be more dangerous, depending on the material. Glass or steel, for example, could cause frostbite on our bits if taken from the freezer to our warm bodies. (Think ‘A Christmas Story’ with the tongue on a frozen pole.) Silicone, however, would be quite nice to explore freezing as it would quickly warm up to the body’s natural temp after a gentle shock of coldness.”

Andy added this helpful tip from Marilyn: