Report from a Sex Educators’ Conference


The difference is that every topic is related to human sexuality, and for everyone there, talking and teaching about sex is their day job.
I just returned from the annual conference of the American Association of Sexuality
Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT) in Austin, and I’d like to share some interesting morsels with you.
Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT) in Austin, and I’d like to share some interesting morsels with you.

AASECT Book Award for Naked at Our Age and I read the inscription on the plaque:
“For a major contribution toward understanding the sexuality of
seniors.” Can you tell from the photo how thrilled I was (and am!)?

and all the experts who provided answers and advice. This is not just my book –
it’s yours, also. Senior sex is
not only out from under the covers, it’s receiving major attention now. I loved hearing this from the therapists: “I bought your
book and love it. I keep it on my desk to show my clients.”
I had the pleasure of talking to Betty Mooney, an 86-year-old sex-ed university professor who received the Distinguished Service Award. (See a clip of her teaching her class here.) Betty told me, “I have no wish to retire. This is more than what I do — it’s what I am.” I get that.
The conference dealt with all aspects of sexuality, but I’ll
share just a few tidbits that apply to our age group.
share just a few tidbits that apply to our age group.
Ellen Barnard is one of my favorite sex educators – you’ll
find her savvy tips all through Naked at Our Age. Ellen, co-owner of A Woman’sTouch in Madison, WI, works with cancer survivors
to help them reclaim their sexuality. “Oncologists are there to treat your
cancer and save your life–it’s not within their job description to talk about
sex,” Ellen told us in her session on Sexuality and Cancer. So it’s up to people like Ellen to do the talking about sex. (Her PowerPoint outline
is available here.) A Woman’s Touch is a superb resource for sexuality topics, especially for our age group.
See the list of educational brochures here. You’ll learn cutting-edge information that your doctor didn’t tell you about Penile Rehabilitation after Prostate or Pelvic Surgery or Radiation, for example, and the complete Vaginal Renewal program that I referenced
several times in both Naked at Our Age and Better Than I Ever Expected.
find her savvy tips all through Naked at Our Age. Ellen, co-owner of A Woman’sTouch in Madison, WI, works with cancer survivors
to help them reclaim their sexuality. “Oncologists are there to treat your
cancer and save your life–it’s not within their job description to talk about
sex,” Ellen told us in her session on Sexuality and Cancer. So it’s up to people like Ellen to do the talking about sex. (Her PowerPoint outline
is available here.) A Woman’s Touch is a superb resource for sexuality topics, especially for our age group.
See the list of educational brochures here. You’ll learn cutting-edge information that your doctor didn’t tell you about Penile Rehabilitation after Prostate or Pelvic Surgery or Radiation, for example, and the complete Vaginal Renewal program that I referenced
several times in both Naked at Our Age and Better Than I Ever Expected.

desire alive and empowered in an ongoing relationship, focusing on pleasure and engagement rather than performance. “Sexuality is sharing pleasure in a team sport,” he said, giving several strategies for developing comfort, confidence, and connection.
There was so much more — but I hope this gives you a taste!
I wore my Naked at Our Age shirt quite a bit. One attendee
read my shirt and told me, “You sure look good for
– whatever age you are.” Struck me as funny!
read my shirt and told me, “You sure look good for
– whatever age you are.” Struck me as funny!
I couldn’t write about sexuality and Austin without posting a photo I took of the Austin Motel. No, I didn’t stay there, but I did stare for a while at the sign (which was huge, if size matters)!
Congratulations Joan! Wonderful news on the AASECT award!
I'm sorry I missed it.
Believe it or not, Ellen Barnard is my step in-laws niece. Also, I only found this out 3 years ago!
Joan, I am so, so proud of you!
Hearing you share about blogging was one of my AASECT highlights! Thanks for sharing practical information, helpful tips and a little grammar 101!